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Am I Afraid of Love?

It's interesting how something so beautiful can be scary!

Booo! J

Fear immobilizes while love mobilizes....

You always know when you or anyone is scared because you stop, you freeze and you do what shouldn't be done.

People who live in fear are predictable because they always do what they shouldn't. They make the same mistakes and use the same rationalizations over and over again.

People living in love are completely unpredictable because they are free! They are free to be themselves... and to do what they want just because they want to.

The silly thing is that people are afraid of love simply because once you embrace love wholeheartedly, then you are free. Why is being free scary?

The reason why it is scary is because when you are free, you break the chains of misery, sadness, depression and more. Things such as depression and sadness bring you sympathy... which is a false source of love.

Sympathy isn't love. Sympathy means that you are too scared to love yourself. If you love yourself, then why would you need sympathy?

Many people are so used to living in fear that they can't let go of their attachment to the fear. These people are scared of being happy because they have become dependent on sympathy, depression, sadness and more for their existence. Similar to a drug user who is dependent on drugs to "escape" this world, people living in fear need fear to escape what they know is true... and the truth is, you should be eternally happy and full of love.

Fear makes us to do silly things. All too often people will date another person they know isn't good. They date the person who isn't good for them because they know the relationship will fail.

When the relationship fails, it gives the person an excuse to be sad again. It gives the person a reason to complain about love.

Love isn't an excuse to fail, it's a reason to succeed.

If you are one of those people who has chosen a relationship when you knew the following, then you have problems:

• I knew my partner was abusive before dating him or her.

• I knew my partner has cheated before and will cheat again.

• I knew my partner wasn't the best for me but it was the best I could do.

• I knew my partner didn't care about me and all he/she wanted was sex.

• I knew my partner had severe emotional problems.

• I knew my partner wasn't the best but I don't want to be alone.

• I knew my partner and I would never be happy from the start.

• I knew my partner wasn't for me but family and cultural pressures forced me into the relationship.

If you can't be happy alone, then you will never be happy when with someone.

If you are loving and living in fear, then you aren't experiencing love.

If you are afraid of love then it's time to stop living in fear.

Help yourself! Live in love.

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