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Am I Suspicious?

Now here is an illness that is a true example of blaming the other person for what you are capable of doing yourself - and probably will - or maybe even have.

People who are suspicious can only be that way because the very thing they are suspicious of is what they are capable of doing themselves.

Suspicion eats at the heart, gradually destroying every bit of trust that may have already been built up in the relationship. You can't hide suspicion because it drives you inwards. As you go more inward your mate will often ask, "what's wrong?" You can't answer as you would give your illness away.

Even the fact that they have asked you what is wrong makes you even more suspicious as in the example of "Why would they ask what is wrong? They must be hiding something?"

But you see it is you that has something wrong with you. You are hiding your guilt by blaming someone else for what you have already done, planning on doing or are thinking about doing.

Suspicion is an evil little repository of guilt. Check it out. Look in to your self and see if what you are blaming your partner for is something that you have already done or thought about doing.

Of course, understanding suspicion can work to your benefit too because if your partner is suspicious of you, it gives you to clues into what they have done or think of doing.

No, suspicion is not love.

If you find you are suspicious then you need to help yourself. If your partner is suspicious then you need to ask yourself why?

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