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Wrongly Directed Love

Wrongly directed love is not really love, it is more of an obsession.

Obsession is an illness. You are only loving an "idea" of a person that you have. In turn, you place your idea of what this person is or should be on to the person you wish to obsess.

Recognize that if affection is not being returned and you still blow hot over that person, that you are being obsessive.

Tri-Love

He loves she, and she loves the other he. The other she loves the other him and so on...

This is a case of triple obsession, each one placing their affections on the one who wants nothing to do with the other. Recognize that it is you who are ill.

Say to yourself, "obsession is an illness" and get help quick. Get help before this becomes a life long pattern of always falling in love with the unattainable.

Sometimes it is a way of saving your self from making a real connection with another person. You subconsciously know that this kind of love cannot be consummated in any way and thus you choose a relationship that will fail because you are too scared to succeed.

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