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Mirror Mirror On The Wall, Who Do I Love Most Of All?

You know, love isn't what it appears to be.

Well, the love that most people have been trained to know is an illusion.

Most people grow up learning that love is something that is given to you. That you also give love to others.

Most people grow up learning that love comes from an external source. But if you stop and think about it for a moment, you will see that this concept is an illusion.

Love isn't given to you by your partner.

Love isn't given to your partner by you.

Instead, we all have inside us all the love we will ever need. It's there... trust me. Yet, as we grow up, we are conditioned to believe by those that are miserable and unhappy, that love is from an external source... as a result, we loose sight of the fact that we all have love inside us... and thus we become miserable ourselves... always searching for love outside and forgetting about inside.

The funny thing is that we all know the love is inside us, yet we are too afraid to admit it. Imagine, if you actually admitted that love is inside you, then you would have to stop searching here and there... because no matter where you go, no matter where you are, no matter where you search... love is always there too... but inside you.

You can put your head between your legs and look behind you... and your love is still there.

You can close your eyes... and your love is still there inside you.

You can stand on your head... and your love is still there too.

It doesn't matter what you do or where you go, love is always inside you.

When you finally stop searching for love and awaken to the truth you already know which is that love is inside you, then you will live love.

But, we grow up being taught what love is, what love should be... without realizing that all one is doing creating expectations... and these expectations will only create misery as expectations are unobtainable. Expectations keep us searching for what love should be and where love should be found.

If you expect others to give you love, then you will always be disappointed in love because no-one can give you what you already have.

The interesting thing about relationships is that our partner acts as a mirror to the love we have within.

Our partner helps us more easily see the love we have within ourselves.

When our partner acts as a mirror to the love we have within, it appears that love is given to us. But wait, stop for a moment... and prevent yourself from being a victim to the illusion... because a mirror, does after all, reflects back what is in front of it.

When the love is reflected back to you by your partner, it appears that your partner is giving you love, but your partner isn't.

Love isn't given, it's rediscovered.

What makes the person you love so special is that your partner has the uncanny ability to reflect the love you have within yourself.

When you love your self, you bring your self to a level of ultimate fulfillment and happiness. Your partner, acting as the mirror, allows you to have this fulfillment through another... that other being your partner.

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