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Allowing Your Partner To Be Himself

This is one truth that we all know, but how many actually live this truth?

Sad to say, not many live this truth.

Controlling your partner and making them something they are not is not love. It may appear to be a loving deed when you try to change or alter your partner, but it's not and this practice needs to be stopped.

What you will discover is that instead of letting your partner be themselves, you try to make them you. That's not love, that's egotistical!

If you want love to flourish, then you will need to learn quick that instead of controlling your partner, you will need to allow him to be himself. If your partner is bad, don't be a fool and think you can change him because you can't. Only they can change themselves.

If your partner is bad then you need to say bye bye to him. Even if you did change a bad partner into a good partner, then it's a false reality and a false love. The only way a bad partner can change is if the bad person love's himself enough to make the changes.

In cases where the partner is a good person, you still can't mold and shape them into what you want! That's not love.

Love is about letting your partner be free. Love is freedom.

To experience the most beautiful relationship possible, remember to ask your partner open ended questions. An open ended question is any question that requires more than a yes or no answer.

When your partner answers your questions, listen to him! Don't tell him his answers. Listen to what he has to say and accept his answers with all your heart. Embrace his passions as if his passions were yours. Walk a mile in his shoes to see what he sees. Breathe what he breathes.

Most couples in a relationship stand looking at each... both looking in opposite directions. It's time though for you to stand with your partner side by side and look in the same direction he is looking.

Once you are looking in the same direction as your partner, then and only then, do you allow him to be himself.

It's time for you to do this... and experience the amazing splendor of love for all it is worth!

Go on now... stand side by side with your partner and see what he sees... and when you do... don't blame me for the smile that comes across your face!

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